Thank you for formalizing a summary. It was discouraging to see staff argue in public channels and hopefully, there are controls to shut those down faster in the (unlikely but possible) event it might happen again. I feel for those who were new to the site on those days; main is fast & confusing on a good day. Looking forward to consistent & reliable monitoring; I know it's a thankless job, but someone has to do it so the rest of us can play safely.

@CollinMartins Many exchange their pics in private messages here. There's no need to leave for another social platform.

Good start, can't wait to see the rest

Yoyo, you inspired me and I have to be inspired to write myself. So, a bit on my feelings about LewdChat and what it brings out in some.

Ode to LewdChat
It's with a certain attitude
I ponder all things chat and lewd
A place for all, some rude or crude
Self conscious or excited nude
Some come with social aptitude
Yet more to break their solitude
Where one can share a their happy mood
Or get ideas on their next food
So if one's in a pensive mood
Or feeling down or starts to brood
Come share a song or quietude
All are welcome, none exclude
Find common kinks that may elude
Most seekers; then show gratitude
Here is a place to find one's groove
Relax, chill chat, or feed your lewd

I thought it might be helpful to use this as a place to collect information from online sexting blogs or articles. A surprising number of newspapers offer tips as well as the results of studies on the practice.

Sexting is here so let's understand the advantages and what makes it work!

Your Guide to Safer Sexting link text

If you're going to sext, you should know how to do it safely and responsibly. Our sexting tips can help you protect your privacy and your relationships.

Safety Advice & Considerations WebMD Article

@issac696 Well of course. The more often one returns and if you use the same nickname, the more familiar you become. When people get used to seeing you regularly, they tend to relax more around you. Just the presence online helps build that. There are actually studies that show being in a location with someone, not even speaking, tends to create a loose relationship.

Sexting with strangers is relatively safe and surprisingly fun.

Earlier today, someone mentioned that talking to strangers is just easier to do. That they have spent hours in here talking about random subjects. I guess we get more uptight trying to talk about somethings with people we have to see repeatedly in real life. But opening up to a stranger can be liberating and illuminating.

Someone I was talking too admitted the same "In the real world I wouldn’t attempt to speak to more than half of the people here, but when I’m here, I feel like I can express better through my fingertips then with my own self which is weird to think about."

A 30+ newcomer gave me a quote about his impression of LewdChat:

"This is such a great concept. The openness, a real feeling of community and that people really do get to know each other..."

Dec 22 Global Orgasm Day

Global Orgasm Day was initiated on 22 December 2006 by an author and activist couple to coincide with the end of solstice. The idea was for participants throughout the world to have an orgasm during this one day while thinking about peace, affecting a widespread positive effect on Human well-being.

How about an Orgasm Infographic

‘Twas a Night Here at LewdChat

(A parody of the holiday poem “Twas the Night Before Christmas”, but with a twist unique for LewdChat. Written by casey 12/2/23)

‘Twas the night before Tuesday and I couldn’t sleep,
I felt LewdChat stir as I tried to count sheep.

The blue nicks were hung and all asking for care
In hopes that some hotties were naked and bare.

Everyone hoped to get snug in their beds
As fetishes, fantasies danced in their heads.

And me, wide awake with my hand on my cap
Had just settled down for a slow, thorough fap.

When out on the roof there arose a loud clatter,
I streaked from my bed to see what was the matter.

I sprang toward a window not quite fully hard,
Then stood looking outside across the still yard.

The moon on the breast of a new fallen snow
Gave the brightness of midday to objects below.

My half open eyes saw one big grinning elf,
Surrounded by helpers: the Big Dick himself!

A guy with a vision, Fudster you should know,
With co-owner Doris supporting the show.

His minions appearing from far and away,
When he pings them or calls a few out by their name.

The list of names too long to mention them all;
Dispensing the rules while the rest have a ball!

As I drew in my heads and was turning around,
Big Dick was behind me in one rapid bound.

He dressed in a combo of latex and fur.
With splashes of something… I wasn’t quite sure.

A bundle of sex toys he flung on his back,
Like an internet merchant with a big, bulging sack.

His eyes also twinkled when he locked them on mine,
Seeing so many people cum for a good time.

He spoke not a word, just let the site do its work
Letting Lewdsters be funny or horny and jerk.

He left just as quickly, his team close behind;
Back into the dark as the Lewds bump and grind.

I heard him exclaim ‘ere he slipped out of sight,
“Happy LewdChat to all, and to all a good night.”

The Ballad of Phantom & Casey

(11/29/23 banter that let up to ad hoc, rhyming flirts)
Casey: That's a new twist on that line

Phantom: Twist was the leather & lace, a pretty lil gag for lips to embrace
Casey: Such prose and finesse might leave someone a mess
Phantom: When mess she does become, time to bend over and smack her bum
Casey: So the thrill of the smack, makes her wiggle the crack?
Phantom: The swat to the slut makes her lift her butt
Casey: It might or might not, depends on her want
Phantom: Only way to know, is to treat like a hoe
Casey: There I disagree, for that is not me
Phantom: Then on that note, we shall talk and cast a vote

The excitement is definitely building. You've got my attention now.

The Twelve Days of LewdChat
(Using the tune from Twelve Days of Christmas, written by casey Dec, 2022)

On my 1st day at Lewdchat my partner gave to me: a blow job that weakened my knees

On my 2nd day at Lewdchat my partner gave to me: 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 3rd day at Lewdchat my partner gave to me, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 4th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 5th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 5 cock rings... 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 6th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 6 nipple piercings, 5 cock rings... 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 7th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 7 thrusting dildoes,6 nipple piercings, 5 cock rings... 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 8th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 8 topless women, 7 thrusting dildoes,6 nipple piercings, 5 cock rings... 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 9th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 9 couples grinding, 8 topless women, 7 thrusting dildoes, 6 nipple piercings, 5 cock rings... 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 10th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 10 lords dry humping, 9 couples grinding, 8 topless women, 7 thrusting dildoes,6 nipple piercings, 5 cock rings... 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 11th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 11 ladies licking, 10 lords dry humping, 9 couples grinding, 8 topless women, 7 thrusting dildoes,6 nipple piercings, 5 cock rings... 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

On my 12th day at LewdChat my partner gave to me, 12 dudes all wacking, 11 ladies licking, 10 lords dry humping, 9 couples grinding, 8 topless women, 7 thrusting dildoes, 6 nipple piercings, 5 cock rings... 4 spanking paddles, 3 french ticklers, 2 brass balls, & a blow job that weakened my knees.

Updated Seasonal Fun with a LewdChat Twist

Here's a place for lewd or non-lewd updates of well known Holiday songs, poems, or stories. Please add some fun and enjoy

Dec 08 Pansexual Pride Day

The term pansexualism first appearred in 1914 meaning that sex was the motivator of everything. In the 1970s the definition changed to describe a sexual orientation, By the 1990's the term sexual fluidity was used to better understand pansexuality

Good start, can't wait to see the rest

Rate your Last Partner
[a tongue in cheek piece done purely for fun]

Please select the best single answer for each question:

1. How would you rate the responsiveness of your partner?
A. On top of everything, including me w/ little delays
B. A little slow, but the amount and quality of text made the wait worthwhile
C. Slow. I had time to boil water and make tea
D. Glacially slow. I had time for a cat nap after getting myself off

2. Would you say your partner was stimulating
A. Had me on the edge in only a couple of turns
B. Took a little time to get into my groove, but came to the right conclusion eventually
C. Only in that I wanted to make sure they were still breathing every so often
D. I've had more fun watching my pubic hair grow back in

3. Would you try to find this partner for repeat playtime?
A. I would be devastated if I couldn't find them again
B. I would try but if not, would still think back on this time fondly
C. I would keep track of them, only to make sure they don't see me online
D. I'm using a fictitious name and possibly changing my sexual preference

Thank you for participating in our impromptu survey regarding your last experience. Your responses will remain anonymous because we don't value your input.

Found an interesting author who was explaining how to write a good sex scene. Funny and light, but very accurate also for sexting and rp. Thought I would leave the URL for the story here.
How to Write a Sex Scene

Feel free to add additional tips or other links you think are funny or helpful.