Sexy Holidays to Celebrate
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October National Kink Month
Halloween, for adults, is an occasion for playing with sexy costumes, assumed identities, and the enjoyment or humor in the darker side of life.- Oct 01 National Massage Day
- Oct 06 National Kink Day
- Oct 13 National No Bra Day
- Oct 15 National Sweetest Day
- Oct 17 National Ass Day
- Oct 20 Love your Body Day
- Oct 21 International Fisting Day
- Oct 31 Halloweenie (ok, maybe I just want to see things in costumes)
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Oct 01 National Massage Day
A good rubdown can improve circulation, boost your immune system, and contribute to your overall health.
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Oct 06 National Kink Day
On this special day, people from all walks of life come together to celebrate and embrace their kinks, fetishes, and unique preferences. It's not about judgment or shame; it's about fostering a sense of community, understanding, and acceptance. Many kink enthusiasts also incorporate cosplay into their playtime.
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Oct 13 National No Bra Day
Women are encouraged to go braless to encourage breast cancer awareness. this started in Toronto, CA in 2011, led by a plastic surgeon trying to raise women's awareness of the availability of reconstructive surgery.
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Oct15 National Sweetest Day
Anyone who grew up in the US Midwest is familiar with Sweetest Day, but for those that didn’t, it’s a day to celebrate and express love in ways both big and small.Traditionally celebrated with gifts of candy as a reminder of life’s sweetest moments, Sweetest Day is a great day to share your favorite sweet treat with the one you love.
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Oct 17 National Ass Day - Don't get left 'behind'.
This is the bootilicious event celebrating the derriere.
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Oct 20 Love your Body Day
A day of encouragement and an imperative to eliminate unrealistic standards of beauty. Did you know:
- list item 79% of women AND men are dissatisfied w/th their appearance.
- list item In 2002, the average weight of a fashion model was 23% lower than that of an average woman
Sponsored by the National Organization for Women Foundation, since 2011, this campaign talks to health, eating disorders, and attempts to fight negative effects of fashion and advertising unrealistic standards for beauty
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Oct 21 International Fisting Day
The last of the October Kink holidays, this kink requires lots of connection and communication Remember, as long as you and your partner are engaging in a consensual act that is practiced safely and feels pleasurable, you can indulge in it without being shamed or censored for it!
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Nov 04 Sex Toy Day
Did you know that the world's largest collection of sex toys is housed in an unexpected location? The Erotica Museum in Copenhagen, Denmark, proudly displays over 1,000 unique and historically significant adult pleasure devices.
Other Trivia:
- The history of sex toys can be traced back to ancient times. Archaeologists have discovered phallic-shaped objects made from stone, bone, and other materials dating as far back as 50,000 BCE.
- Greek pottery from the Hellenistic period features various depictions of sexual activities and the use of sex toys. Dildos, or 'olisbos,' were made from materials like leather, wood, or painted clay. The use of sex toys was seen as a way to enhance pleasure and explore different sexual experiences.
- The 19th century witnessed significant advances in the development of sex toys including the electromechanical vibrator. Originally invented in the 1880s as a medical device for treating 'female hysteria,' vibrators quickly gained popularity as a tool for sexual pleasure. By the late 19th century, these could be ordered through mail-order catalogs, discreetly marketed as 'electric massagers' or 'relaxation aids.'
- In the 1930s, the term 'sex toy' was coined to refer to objects or devices used for sexual pleasure, moving away from the more explicit or derogatory terminology used in previous eras.
- In the 1950s vibrators began to be sold in shops and catalogs. While discussions about sex toys remained relatively taboo in mainstream culture, there was a growing recognition of their existence
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Nov 23 International Polyamory Day
For those who enjoy multiple intimate relationships, but not to be confused with polygamy (more than 1 spouse), swinging or partner swapping. Any number of people can be involved in either sexual or nonsexual romantic relationships.
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Nov 25 Spanksgiving
No, it's not about watching porn alone and spanking your turkey, guys! Spanking has been performed as a purification ritual since the ancients. It is even known to produce hormones & pheromones along with the feel good chemicals helping your body’s health!
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Dec 08 Pansexual Pride Day
The term pansexualism first appearred in 1914 meaning that sex was the motivator of everything. In the 1970s the definition changed to describe a sexual orientation, By the 1990's the term sexual fluidity was used to better understand pansexuality
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Dec 22 Global Orgasm Day
Global Orgasm Day was initiated on 22 December 2006 by an author and activist couple to coincide with the end of solstice. The idea was for participants throughout the world to have an orgasm during this one day while thinking about peace, affecting a widespread positive effect on Human well-being.
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January is Self Love Month
The 1950s Beat Generation and the early Hippie Age of the 1960s were the first to advocate for self-love. Following the catastrophic impacts of World War II and with troops still waging war in Vietnam, western societies began promoting love and peace. Self-love is about developing your capacity to be more aware, authentic and intentional in every aspect of your life. By doing so, you’ll build greater self-compassion and also enhance your ability to be more compassionate with others. Self-love is vastly important for any person in any walk of life. If you want to evolve as a person, you have to start with self-love first. It is the foundation for everything beautiful in life, including meaningful and healthy relationships, having a positive attitude and body image, and achieving your dreams.
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Jan 13 Sex in the Shower Day
Besides getting clean, you can experiment with new sex poses, and spice up your routine.
Let's be honest, once you get into the shower with someone, you're not likely saving water as much as enjoying the added sensations of warm water, slippery, soapy skin...
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Jan 19 International Fetish Day
Originated in the UK in January 2008, to increase awareness of the community and to oppose the UK law that criminalized extreme pornography.
A main activity is to wear the color purple for the "Perverts Wear Purple" event.
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Feb 2 International Work Naked Day
Celebrate this day only if you work from home! Please don’t come to work naked or you won’t have an office to go to the next day.
Work Naked Day is believed to have started in the 1990s in New Zealand, where a group of activists gathered to protest against office dress codes. The objective was to break the stereotype that professional success is linked to the way one dresses. This event sparked interest and soon spread to other countries, making it a global phenomenon. Today, people around the world participate in this day to celebrate freedom and self-expression.
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Feb 11-17 International Flirting Week
Egyptians used dance as an early form of flirtation. Then, in the Victorian era, people expressed emotions and interest through their flower selections, each variety having a different hidden meaning. Some of the earliest flirting began in 1797, when Charles Badini created the Original Fanology or Ladies' Conversation Fan in London. It was a sign language of hand fans. Placing the fan over the heart meant 'I love you" and opening the fan wide meant 'wait for me" Both men & women carried fans to balls. After WWII, the art of flirting evolved to more direct and open exchanges.
Flirting is meant to be harmless and fun, but it can open the door to more serious relationships as well. Did you know that flirting is also recognized as a universal human behavior? It happens regardless of culture.
The word 'flirt" is French and means to try to seduce by dropping flower petals.
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Feb 14-21 National Condom Week
National Condom Week was first observed in the 1990s attempting to raise awareness of using condoms to prevent STDs as well as unwanted pregnancies, and they are 98% effective in preventing both!Condoms have been in use an incredibly long time:
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Egyptians used them as early as 3000 BC
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Around the same time, King Minos of Crete was supposed to have believed his sperm contained serpents and scorpions that killed his mistresses, so he used a goat's bladder to protect his wife from the same fate.
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By 1400, they were being made from animal intestines
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1848 - rubber condoms appeared after the vulcanization of rubber
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1923 - female condoms were first produced
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Early 1990s - National Condom Week was observed, attempting to raise awareness of using condoms to prevent STDs & unwanted pregnancies
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Mar 03 International Sex Worker Rights Day
Originating in 2001, 25,000 sex workers gathered in India for a festival, despite efforts from prohibitionist groups who tried to prevent it taking place by pressuring the government to revoke their permit. The event was organized by a Calcutta based group that has over 50,000 sex worker members, and members of their communities.
Sex worker groups across the world have subsequently celebrated 3 March as International Sex Workers’ Rights Day.